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Texan Fil-Am Paul Qui Wins Top Chef–and Hearts All Over the Country

Tyson Cole and Austinites celebrating Paul Qui's win at Uchiko in Austin (Source: Statesmen.com)

Paul Qui won Top Chef! Which I’m ECSTATIC about because he totally reps me as a Texan, a Filipino American, and general lover of Japanese and Southeast Asian cuisine.

I really hope that Paul not only challenged stereotypes about Asian Americans (especially in a field as competitive as the restaurant business), but also that he changed people’s perceptions of Texans and the food we cook and eat (it’s not chili and BBQ all the time!).

Arguably the most endearing thing about Paul is that he stayed humble throughout the entire competition. In these final episodes of the season, we saw him give shouts out to his grandfather, who emigrated to the Philippines from China, and his parents, who emigrated to the U.S. from the Philippines.

Many of us in the AAPI community are intimately familiar with his story, which makes Paul’s victory even sweeter for those of us who, y’know, enjoy living the American Dream vicariously through supertalented people…

You’re a badass, Qui. But how hard will it be to get a table at Uchiko these days? Ah, but there’s always East Side King. I just hope Bourdain–or anyone–won’t be filming wherever I’ve got a hankering for some eats.

P.S. Check Best Week Ever’s funny recap of the Top Chef season finale.

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Lin-spired Race-Tweet Wars and Peace in Comedy

I know, I know, you’re sick and tired of hearing about Jeremy Lin. He plays basketball and he’s Asian and that’s about it. End of story, right? It should be. If we were living in a post-racial, meritocratic world we’d be saying “Hey, look at this new kid on the Knicks: he’s got game and a lot of potential!” and that would be the last we’d hear about him until he gets on a Wheaties box or cheats on his wife.

The fact is that we can’t talk Jeremy Lin without talking race. Taiwanese Americans, Chinese Americans and Asian Americans in general want to celebrate the fact that Lin is one of only a handful of Asian American basketball players in NBA history–and the first in more than a decade. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with celebrating an underdog who breaks barriers. Well, until the celebration turns into “hype” and fame becomes predicated on race. Then everyone wants you to stop talking about Lin and his accomplishments because it ought not be a “race thing.”

If you share the above opinion, I’ve got news for you: it was a “race thing” long before Lin became starting point guard for the Knicks. It was a “race thing” when people were telling him: ”Go back to China”; “Orchestra is on the other side of campus”; “Open up your eyes.” It is always part of the story, the underdog narrative, and it matters. It’s precisely the racial baggage that makes him such a role model for many Asian American kids who play sports or dream of playing professional sports in this country and need confirmation that it’s even possible and that the barriers aren’t too big. Let’s just accept that and celebrate that and nurture that–can we?

Who am I kidding? We can’t accept that. We’re hopeless. Let the Race-tweet War commence:

Floyd Mayweather Jr.: Jeremy Lin is a good player but all the hype is because he’s Asian. Black players do what he does every night and don’t get the same praise.

Jeremy Whitlock (of Fox Sports, on the Knicks win against the Lakers): Some lucky lady in NYC is gonna feel a couple of inches of pain tonight.

Jenny Hyun (K-Pop songwriter): *A response to Floyd Mayweather that’s really a psychotic, racist Twi-rade against Black people.* (Warning: Clicking this link will make you lose your shit. Try not to lose it in a similarly racist or non-constructive way.)

And let the off-Twitter racial insensitivity commence:

ESPN.com headline: A Chink in the Armor

The Nick and Artie Show (on nationally syndicated KNBR 1050): Most Racist Joke about Jeremy Lin and Asian Americans Contest

UGH. Don’t it all just make your heart hurt? White people, Black people, Asian people: can we STFU already with the hate? All of this smack talk is only going to get you an Internet smack in the face. And all of this tearing other people down is only tearing down yourself and the respective and multiple communities you represent. BE BETTER THAN THAT.

While I’m horrified and ashamed at some people in the media, I’ve also found solace in comedy, a frequent peacemaker and unlikely voice of reason in these, our craptastic times. I’m glad to share with you a few clips that really put Linsanity into perspective and demonstrate how farcical our limited viewpoints and unbending attitudes really are.

SNL Cold Opening: Linsanity Postgame

The Colbert Report: Linsanity!

“Conan” Writer Deon Cole Begs Asians to Leave Basketball Alone

Have you seen any other funny Jeremy Lin clips on the Web? Feel free to send me some links. I’m especially interested in seeing Asian American comedians’ takes on the Jeremy Lin phenom if they’re out there. And I hope one day to see an Asian American on SNL, playing Jeremy Lin or Kim Jong-un or whoever. Like, maybe Ken Jeong, Bobby Lee, John Cho…anyone on this list?

 

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Hell Yeah! Paul Qui and Beverly Kim are Top Chef Finalists

Cheftestant Paul Qui of Uchiko restaurant in Austin, TX

I just watched the latest episode of Top Chef and I’m excited that Paul Qui and Beverly Kim made it into the final round. I, like so many of my fellow Austinites, have been rooting for Paul Qui since day one. Paul has such a heart of gold, a positive attitude and enormous talent that I almost forgive him for trying to serve me some crazy nuoc mam sorbet at Uchiko on my first visit to the restaurant.

Beverly is a different story. I, like so many of her haters, did not want to like her. She’s a perfectionist, precise, driven, laser-focused, could be seen as selfish. Moreover, she’s mousy, quiet, apologetic, tended to get emotional, could be seen as weak. Quickly I realized that the reason for my dislike was a personal one–I did not like her because she reflected a stereotype I was all too familiar with. And I didn’t want that stereotype on TV.

Cheftestant Beverly Kim engrossed in slicing some veg

Now I realize that I was fool. It’s not only important for someone like Beverly Kim to be on TV; it’s necessary. It’s all too easy for her competitors and the rest of the world to hate her and to be infuriatingly condescending and superior to someone–to a personality shaped by upbringing, values, belief systems, life experiences and lack of privilege–they just do not understand.

When fellow competitor and challenge partner Heather Terhune threw Beverly under the bus for no good reason and proceeded to direct all kinds of unwarranted aggression at her, my blood boiled with an empathetic rage. After the Restaurant Wars episode, wherein the other two finalists Lindsey Autry and Sarah Grueneberg berated Beverly like they would a child or puppy, I shrieked for vengeance. I felt a kind of Schadenfreude-like glee when Bev won Last Chef Standing, moseyed back into the competition, won a spot in the finale, and made the supposed finalists faces melt into a look of disdain and fear.

Perhaps Beverly Kim will get the last laugh, if she hasn’t already. She could win the damn thing, which would be very cool indeed because women and people of color competing in the Top Chef finale (much less winning the season) is a rare thing. Even though I adore Paul Qui and think he will probably win, I’m rooting for Beverly with all my heart. She’s not just a woman of color on TV; she’s a class act. Considering all the shit she’s been through, you’d never even expect her to be.

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Details of Racist Hazing of Pvt. Danny Chen Revealed

On October 3, 2011, a 19-year-old infantryman, Danny Chen, died in Afghanistan. He was not killed by a barrage of bullets or an enemy explosion–but by the racist bullying of his countrymen and one “apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound” to the head. Last December, eight servicemen were charged with assault, negligent homicide and reckless endangerment of the young private. Now, we’re finally learning the details of exactly what happened to Danny.

NYMag.com has a feature on Danny that paints a picture of a smart, young, potential pacifist, drawn into the Armed Forces and conflict for reasons he may not even have understood. Here’s the most detailed excerpt about what young Danny had to endure:

When he arrived, Chen was at the bottom of the social hierarchy: a newcomer to his unit, a lowly private, still just a teenager, in a combat zone for the first time. And the only Chinese-American in his platoon. In a meeting with Chen’s parents on January 4, Army officials said that his superiors had considered him not fit enough when he arrived, and singled him out for excessive physical exercise: push-ups, flutter-kicks, sit-ups, sprints done while carrying a sandbag. Such punishments resemble the “smokings” that drill sergeants mete out at basic training to correct mistakes. But, in Chen’s case, it wasn’t long before this campaign of “corrective training” escalated into sheer brutality.

Members of this group allegedly harassed and humiliated Chen from almost the day he arrived at The Palace. They belittled him with racial slurs. They forced him to do push-ups with a mouthful of water, refusing to let him swallow or spit any out. And, on September 27, a sergeant allegedly yanked him out of bed and dragged him across about 50 yards of gravel toward a shower trailer as punishment for supposedly breaking the hot-water pump. He endured bruises and cuts on his back. Army officials told Chen’s family that although the leader of his platoon found out about this incident, he never reported it as he was required to.

One week later, on the morning of October 3, Chen was scheduled to report for guard duty at 7:30 a.m. But when he got to the guard tower, he realized he’d forgotten his helmet and didn’t have enough water. A superior sent him back to the trailer to get what he needed, then allegedly forced him to crawl, with all his equipment, across some 100 meters of gravel in order to return to the tower so he could start his shift. While he was on the ground, two other superiors pelted him with rocks. And once he reached the tower, a superior grabbed him by his body armor and dragged him up the steps.

When I first heard about this story, I literally sunk down on the floor in tears. I’m so saddened and enraged that in two-thousand-fucking-twelve this shit still happens in the army. It’s been a whole year since DADT’s been repealed! Servicemen and women are on the TV talking about how the army now respects them for the content of their character and the whole of their identities–and then, THIS?

Let’s get real, people. Discrimination and hazing still happen. Not just in college frat houses, but in America, in Afghanistan, in the barracks our nation’s defenders inhabit. And it’s going to keep happening until people speak out against this bullshit. (One of these people is Esther Choi, who last month campaigned for people of color and other marginalized people to refuse enlisting in the army until hazing and hate crime responses were reformed. After reaching out to the Occupy Wall Street movement to get them involved in the cause, she posted this critique on Racialicious.com in which she denounced OWS for–surprise, surprise–co-opting the causes of POCs and thereby marginalizing and oppressing them.)

Back to Danny. I shared his story on Facebook and one of my friends, Francis, shot me a DM about it. Here’s what he said:

I kinda felt the same way as him. I was the only Asian guy in my platoon, and better yet, I was the only Asian guy in my whole company (company is 4 platoons). But yeah, I kept my mouth shut when I was made fun of. I was trained on the weekends so I would get stronger, and whoever made fun of me, eventually I got stronger than them. Then I winked at them…haha. Marines think they’re so tough. But I made great friends with them as well.

Although I’m quite certain that he glossed over any actual events of discrimination to tell me a pleasant story, I don’t doubt his truth. Though he may have never seen combat, Francis is one of my heroes. He’s got double the strength of some privileged asshat: he’s Army Strong and Oppressed Strong. And I’m glad there are people like him serving the country. But, most people aren’t doubly strong. They’ve got strength, yes, but it’s regular human. They’re naive enough to believe that the army is a place where they can feel like they belong, can make a difference, can be stronger than they’ve ever been. They just don’t realize that “in part because of low enrollment and in part because of enduring prejudice, the military is especially tough on its Asian soldiers.”

If Danny had known, maybe he wouldn’t have enlisted. Or maybe he did know and enlisted anyway. Either way, Danny is one of my heroes too–because he dared to be that one “gook,” “chink,” dragon lady” who stood apart and wouldn’t go home. It’s more than most of us would. Better a dragon lady among soldiers than eight nasty little boys among an embattled community.

 

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Your Asian Sure as Hell Wasn’t Quiet

poster created by www.resistracism.wordpress.com

The image above is an oldie but a goodie, and I’m really feelin’ it today, at the close of the first week of the new year. I’ve got a couple of dozen resolutions for 2012 written down, but the biggest one on my list is to embody at every opportunity the sentiment expressed in this poster. It’s to empower myself and others to make noise, speak our truths without fear or care of repercussions, to make statements that make people listen.

I think there’s a little girl with a chili bowl haircut in all of us, yellow or not. And she’s saying, “Stop looking at my helmet-head! Listen to my damn message!!!” I’m going to relinquish some control to my inner-angry-Asian-girl-child this year. What about you?

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